Management Training Consultants | June '04 Newsletter
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Quote of the month
"Nothing can cure the soul but the senses, just as nothing can cure
the senses but the soul"
    Oscar Wilde
 
Soul Food and Pleasures

Have you ever wondered how to describe one's soul? I have. So when I came across this while doing some research for one of my courses I wanted to share it:

"When a fleet of ships sets sail, one of them sets the course for all of the others. It is the heart of the entire fleet, no matter how many ships are in it. Setting the course for the fleet does not mean determining what happens aboard each ship. The many interactions on each ship unfold in their own ways… On some ships the journey is generally pleasant. On others it is always difficult. Imagine that the mother ship is the largest sea-going vessel you can picture in your mind… Imagine that the rest of the ships in the fleet are small boats, each with room enough for one person. The mother ship is your soul and you are one of the small boats…When you are in touch with your mother ship, you have another much larger perspective to guide you through the storms of your life…Your mother ship has it's own destination. It always sails towards harmony, co-operation, sharing and reverence for Life. When that is your destination too you are coordinated with it most effectively. If you sail in an opposite direction you can lose track of it completely."

This was written by Gary Zukav, author of 'The Seat of the Soul'. He goes on to say that we need to learn to communicate with our soul to become the person we really are. He calls this enlightenment.

Why am I sharing this with you? Because I believe we deny ourselves so much. In our quest to be so many things for so many reasons and for so many people we forget to be who we really are - our authentic selves. We find all the reasons why we shouldn't do whatever it is we want to do instead of all the reasons why we should. "The soul needs to be fattened" said Thomas Moore in his book 'Re-enchantment of Everyday Life'.

In need of some space and R&R I took myself off to the Royal Livingstone Hotel at the Victoria Falls in Zambia. Soul food! I spent five days feeding my soul and feasting on the small things that we forget give us so much pleasure. David Livingstone penned the following words about the Falls:

"Scenes so lovely must have been gazed upon by angels in their flight."

These pictures hopefully help you feel closer
to what I experienced.
  Another beautiful Vic Falls Sunset That's me on Dan the elephant with Mr T!
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Some Food For Thought


Are you denying yourself soul food and starving your soul? Are you blocking your pleasure? Look at the list below and think about them. Do you:
 
· Believe that things will not change for the better?
· Have the inability to laugh at oneself?
· Feel unworthy (of anything!)?
· Lack spontaneity?
· Have the inability to ask for help?
· Tend to put others down?
· Find it difficult to forgive?
· Make promises and not deliver?
· Procrastinate and put off what you want to do?
· Find it difficult to say NO, gracefully?
· Have the need to please others (at your expense)?
· Surround yourself with negativity?
· Remain in toxic relationships?
· Think that worrying will make it better?
· Not follow your dreams?

Think about these honestly and admit what you need to change! I did and I sincerely believe that your only obligation in your lifetime is to be true to yourself
 

 

A Final Word
 

"The soul walks not upon a line, neither does it grow like a reed
The soul unfolds itself, like a lotus of countless petals.

    Kahlil Gibran
….and one I love (because I can identify so well!)
 
"Years wrinkle the face but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul."
    Watterson Lowe
Interesting reads!
 
1.  Something More
SARAH BAN BREATHNACH
2.  The Seven Whispers
CHRISTINA BALDWIN
3.  Simple Steps
DR ARTHUR CALIANDRO
4.  Colours for the Soul
PAM RHODES
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