Over the past few weeks I have found myself in ‘observation mode’.
One learns a lot by watching and observing people… about generosity, kindness
and courtesy and sadly also about self-importance, ‘delusions of grandeur’ and arrogance!
What has happened that so many have acquired this attitude of arrogance… of entitlement… of loss of common courtesy, kindness and manners?
Jonathan Sacks calls humility the “orphaned virtue of our age.”
Humility is often misunderstood. Dictionaries define it as:
“A modest opinion of one’s own importance”
“The quality of not thinking you are better than other people”
“Self-restraint from excessive vanity.”
Humility derives from an inner sense of self-worth. It is not false modesty or undermining one’s
accomplishments. More and more we seem to live in a world of self-promotion, self-justification
and winning. This is not to say one should not feel proud of hard earned achievements and
accomplishments. However be cogniscent of remaining humble.
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